Oh Tannenbaum, Oh Tannenbaum, how lovely are your branches?

You would think, in the land of Christmas Trees, at the foot of the Black Forest, that we would have a Weihnachtsbaum fit for a holiday card. Well, I am going to hope that all the beautiful trees are still standing, cleaning the Earth, and providing visual pleasure for countless years to come. I say thins because it seems that only the scraggly and unsightly trees are available for gracing the homes of Freiburgers.

History first: In the 16^th century, German Christians brought decorated trees into their homes and are accredited with starting the Christmas tree tradition. It is rumored that Martin Luther, the 16^th century Protestant reformer, first added candles to a tree. In the 1830s German settlers in Pennsylvania were the first ones to bring the Christmas tradition to America. Christmas tree ornaments were shipped from Germany in the 1890s, at a time when Christmas trees and ornaments were seen as pagan symbols by Americans. You’d think all these years of practice would yield some really great Christmas trees!

Reality next: Our Weihnachtsbaum is far from post-card quality. The first challenge was where to buy one. I asked my German teacher and she had no idea. We went to the Rathaus (Town Hall) and they were of little help. We ended up at the German version of Home Depot, which had about 3 parking spaces worth of selection. Every tree had at least two feet of branch-less trunk at the top and the rest was so sparse you could see through to the other side. After looking at four or five different trees, the man pulls one out and says, “DAS ist ein Tannenbaum!” (THAT is a fir tree!) He was pretty pumped about it. So I said, “Dann, das ist UNSER Tannenbaum!” (Then, that is OUR fir tree!) We loaded it into the trunk of our sedan, drove home, put it in the elevator, and then got to work!

Hanging the lights was an interesting task. I pretty much created a tangled mess of wires and lights where branches should be. I told Joe he had to take them all off in January. Poor kid.

The top of the trunk was about four inches too long to accommodate the star. I didn’t feel like trying to cut it with scissors, so I just folded it over. I expected it to snap and break, but no, it was just like folding a Twizzlers. Hmmm…that’s a new one.

The ornaments had to go through several screening processes since we were limited on space. To all those who didn’t make the cut: Sorry, try again next year.

The tree has been standing for several weeks now, thank goodness. We chose not to buy European Christmas lights, so we have the strands plugged into a transformer. It is always a surprise what the lights will look like when they are plugged in. Some strands go on, others don’t. Some turn off when they get too “tired”. Sometimes the entire tree just goes dark. We don’t ever leave the tree unattended, as it surely is a fire-hazard.

To top it all off, we get to keep the tree until January 18^th! That is the only day that tree-pick up occurs on our street. Regardless of its idiosyncrasies, at its resemblance to Charlie Brown’s tree, it is our German Christmas tree and it makes us laugh.

Oh Tannenbaum, Oh Tannenbaum, your branches green delight us.

Moving out of the country is a big decision to make. The pro/con list can and will look very different for every person, every family. One of the biggest “cons” on our list was being so far from our families.

No one enjoys getting a phone call about a loved one that has gotten into an accident, is in the hospital, or even just had a bad day. I got two of those calls in the same week. This is exactly what I feared and dreaded…being so far away when the ones I love need help. The good news is that everyone will be ok.

Photo credit: Kevin's Emergency Photo Services ~ Model: MOM

My Mom fell off her horse on Tuesday morning and was in surgery to get twelve screws in her ankle by Tuesday afternoon. I got a super-sad message from her, which didn’t reveal any information, just the dreaded, “Please call me when you can.” Thanks to critical information from my Dad, and some Google searching, I was quickly calling her hospital room….from Germany. Holding back tears, I took a deep breath, put a smile on my face and after her feeble “Hello”, I said, “Hi Mom. Wie geht’s?” (How are ya?)  She is taking German lessons at the community college, and I could hear an immediate change in mood as she replied, “Nicht so gut, nicht so gut.” (not so good). Smiles for all.

My older sister was quickly in route back to my home town, and was soon updating me with daily calls or e-mails. Unfortunately one of the updates said, “I was going back to the house and saw an ambulance. It was Dad. He fell off.” This was Sunday. He had fallen off my horse and hit his head pretty bad. I was now calling my Dad’s hospital room. My mom answered and she told me, “I am here with der Vater (the father) and der Bruder (the brother).” “Oh yes”, I told her, “mein Vater (my Father) and mein Bruder (my brother).” Smiles for all.

Both my sisters and brother rallied for the cause, each choreographing and directing the barn chores and Thanksgiving festivities according to their personal strengths. I, unfortunately, could only listen from afar. However, thanks to technology and the cheerful laughter of my family, I didn’t feel so far away. I made it through a big “con” and it wasn’t so bad!

I love my family because they are committed to each other. Sometimes they are committed to giving each other a hard time and making each other’s lives a real pain, but they know that family is family. They know that we need to stick together, no matter how far apart. Without their love and support, I wouldn’t have the courage to live so far away and tackle each “con” as it presents itself.

One of my favorite lines from Pearl Jam: “I’m a lucky man, to count on both hands, the ones I love.”

I’m a lucky girl.